I’ve learned some things about sin: (1) all have sinned; (2) we are often happy to talk about someone else’s sin; (3) those sins that directly affect us tend to get overlooked, or excused; and (4) eventually we stop talking about sin because we are uncomfortable with our sinfulness, and we don’t want to be accused of being judgmental toward others. This is especially true when it comes to sexual sin. However, the truth remains that sin is the condition of humanity – all of us. And, there is a remedy for sin.
In my previous post, I wrote that the church should be a place of grace for all those who have fallen into sexual sin. First, we need to come to terms with a biblical definition of grace. For many, grace means the acceptance and forgiveness of sinners. That’s a good start, but it doesn’t explain the fullness of grace. Yes, God’s grace extends acceptance and forgiveness to fallen humans; but grace, through Christ and Holy Spirit, also heals the sinfulness of penitent humans. Yes, Christ (and the church) receives sinners, but in receiving there is a salvific transformation. So, what does this have to do with the restoration of those who have fallen into sexual sin?




As the Romans soldiers hoisted the cross, with Jesus nailed to it, the Son of Man was being lifted up and he was drawing all humanity to himself (John 12:32). The crucifixion was designed to be a slow and painful method of execution, and it was common for those condemned to die on the cross to live for several days. We know that Jesus, and his condemned companions, were on the cross only a few hours. But for those hours, Jesus was conscious and even spoke. He spoke to his mother and her companions. He spoke to one of the condemned thieves. On the cross he prayed. Many condemned persons have recited desperate prayers as death approached. But Jesus’ prayer was different. Jesus, “God with us,” prayed a prayer of intercession: “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).